I don't expect you to make promises to me like that. I have told you all along that you have to leave Alena because you don't want to be with her. You have to be honest with yourself and know that that's what you want to do. Does being with her keep you from fulfilling your life? I want you to be sure that you're not leaving because the grass (me) is greener on the other side. Otherwise I will always live in fear of disappointing you and you being sorry that you left. So if you're going to give your relationship another chance and really try that's fine. If you're not going to try 100% that's not fair to Alena and you should just leave as soon as you can. Okay? It's a tough call. It was easy for me with Chuck at the end. It was one thing for him to treat me badly but when he treated other people the same way it was clear. I've seen a little of the same thing in Alena. When she's not happy she's cold to other people. I hope I'm not out of line by saying something like that...maybe it's just cause she doesn't like me.